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Parenting a child with special needs is a journey—one filled with challenges, triumphs, and lots of learning along the way, both parent and child. As a parent, you know your child better than anyone else. You understand what makes them laugh, what calms them down, and what motivates them to try something new. While professionals can offer great strategies and advice, no one has the insight and connection that you do. That’s why I want to share a practical, flexible approach that you can adapt to fit your child’s needs: the token economy.
This simple yet powerful system can help reinforce positive behaviors, build learning routines, and make everyday tasks more manageable. I’ve used it in classrooms for over a decade, and I’ve also seen how well it works at home with my own kids—one of whom is on the Autism Spectrum and another with Down Syndrome. Every child is different, so I’ll walk you through how to make this system work for your family.
A token economy is a way to reward good behavior and build learning habits by using small tokens (stickers, tally marks, checkmarks, whatever works!) that your child can collect and trade for something they enjoy.
This method has been around since the 1960s and is widely used in schools, therapy programs, and at home. The concept is not complicated! At home, it can be as easy as drawing boxes on a whiteboard and adding a star each time your child does something you want to encourage—like following directions, completing a task, or handling a situation calmly. You can make the goal whatever you want, it can be super simple or more challenging.
The best part? You get to decide what works for your child.
When introducing a token economy, start small. Pick one or two school tasks you want to encourage and make sure your child knows exactly what to do to earn a token. For younger kids, it might be as simple as coping or writing the letter A. For older kids, it could be finishing a line of math problems or competing the whole worksheet. It all depends on the child’s motivation to work for a token.
Here’s an example of how you might start:
In the beginning, rewards should come fast and often so your child gets excited about participating. As they get used to the system, you can increase the number of tasks to each token needed before they get a reward. For example, a token board might have 5 boxes, and to earn one token to put in one of the boxes, your child needs to finish a whole worksheet. to fill the token board with 5 tokens, your child needs to complete 5 worksheets to trade the 5 tokens for their reward. It is like an employee finishing their work each week to earn a paycheck; it’s the same concept.
Timers are a lifesaver when using a token system because they set clear expectations. Kids (especially those with Autism or ADHD) do better when they know exactly how long something will last.
Here’s how to use a timer for rewards and transitions:
Timers help prevent power struggles because it’s not YOU ending the reward—it’s the timer. That small shift can make a big difference!
Rewards don’t have to be expensive or elaborate—they just need to be motivating for your child. Some kids love stickers, others will work for extra story time, a favorite snack, time with their favorite toy, and one of my kids likes to listen to music.
And let’s be real—sometimes, the only thing they’ll work for is screen time. No judgment here! While I try to avoid using tablets and phones as rewards, some days, that’s the only thing that will motivate my child. And that’s okay! You get to decide what works for your family.
One tip I’ve learned from behavior specialists is to have a hierarchy of rewards:
Not every day will be the same. Some days, your child will need more motivation. Some days, they’ll breeze through their work with minimal effort. Adjust as needed.
One of the biggest challenges with rewards is transitions—getting your child to give back the toy or stop the activity when time is up. If your child refuses to give up a reward, that’s a sign it might be too motivating to use regularly.
For example, if your child loves playing with a certain toy but has a meltdown every time you take it away, that toy might be too valuable to use as a daily reward. Instead, save it for extra-difficult tasks or challenging days.
You want rewards to be exciting—but not too exciting because we want are children to transition back to their school lessons or work smoothly.
Your child’s needs, interests, and challenges will change over time, and so should your token system. Some kids will pick up on it quickly and start completing full routines with just a verbal reminder. Others will need more structure and a clear visual guide for a while.
Here’s how you can gradually increase expectations:
The goal isn’t to have your child depend on rewards forever—it’s to help them learn skills in a way that makes sense for them.
There is a recent study that evaluated the effectiveness of a token economy implemented with the the ClassDojo app to enhance engagement in daily living and vocational tasks among adults with developmental disabilities. I have seen many classrooms use the app especially in elementary school settings. The intervention led to increased task engagement, with participants maintaining higher levels of engagement up to six weeks post-intervention.
If you would like to read this article you can go to:
Beahm, L. A., Ingvarsson, E. T., Funk, N., Haskins, L., & Frazier, J. (2023). Using an app-based token economy to increase engagement in daily living and vocational tasks with adults with developmental disabilities. Behavior Analysis in Practice, 16(4), 1047–1060. https://doi.org/10.1007/s40617-023-00774-4PMC+1PubMed+1